I can’t believe we are saying good bye to March this week. This year seems to be going even faster than last year, which I didn’t think was possible. Today’s post is all about how we can take better care of ourselves. As moms, we spend so much time taking care of everyone else. Children are always a priority and that’s a little backwards. So, today I want to talk about 12 things every mom should do this year. Ladies, that’s one a month. It’s nothing. You can totally do this and be a more present mom because of it.
- Facial – Take care of your skin. Get any sort of facial. If your budget is tight, there is always DIY. Just be sure it’s not a mask that will get stuck to your face. Ya know, like those new black masks we all keep seeing stuck to people. LOL.
- Massage – Treat yourself to a massage. I suggest Christmas time. Let’s be real, we all struggle around the holidays, and a massage would be totally awesome. The amazing part about 1 & 2 is if you can find a local spa that does both and then make it a full day of pampering. In Carlsbad, we have Ocean Day Spa.
- Mani/Pedi – Again, this is another one that you can do yourself, if you are on a budget. If you can though, once a year, let someone else pamper you.
- Get your hair done – I get this done every six weeks. But if it’s not a priority on your list, get it done at least once a year. Even if you just add a few face framing highlights.
- Get outdoors – I’m talking a day outside alone. Get out and take on an intermediate hike or paddleboard. Whatever you love. Do it.
- Go shopping alone – Seriously, do it. It’s amazing.
- Brunch with friends – A nice brunch with mimosas is a must.
- Girls trip – Even if it’s just one night staycation type trip. Get away with the girls.
- Girls night – Go out dancing, or to your favorite restaurant with the girls. Around here, I’m all about Taco Tuesdays. Because after living on the east coast and Taco Tuesday not being a thing, I need tacos in my life. LOL. One of my favorite places is Hacienda De Vega. Their food is amazing and the restaurant is pretty cool!!
- Weekend getaway with the hubs – Plan a weekend escape with just your husband. Even if it’s just grandma taking the kids so you can have a night in alone. Make time for your spouse.
- Do yoga – Personally, this should be a part of your life anyway. If it isn’t, at least once a year, buy yourself a yoga series and get into a studio. There is nothing like yoga in a studio.
- Complete A Race – 5K, 10K or half marathon. Sign yourself up and let your competitive edge set in. There is no greater feeling than crossing a finish line after a run!! My favorite women’s race is the Divas Half. Check it out, it’s so fun.
Love this list. I agree with every single one of them! I have a 8 months old baby and recently began getting facials again. it feels heavenly! My next goal is to start yoga again. I’m not sure if I can run a marathon though, it’s so hard for me. But it would be great to try!
Even if you did a 5K it would be awesome! Just a little healthy competition. xo~ Megan
Excellent list, and I really need to work on implementing some of these this year. I just got a manicure last week, and it’s amazing how having someone else do something for you can totally make your day/week/month. I need a massage next!
It’s so true!! It’s just the little things that can make such a difference. xo ~ Megan
This is a great list! Mani/pedis and massages are my weaknesses! I definitely NEED a facial some time this year! I haven’t had one FOREVER!
Thank you Trista. Yes get a facial for sure. xo ~ Megan
This is such a great list! Do you know I’ve never had a facial?! I’m going to have to check this off my list this year!
What really? You have to get a facial. A-MAH-ZING. xo ~ Megan
Love this list!!! Especially the race idea — it’s so empowering!!
Thank you Ashley! xo ~ Megan
Im not a mom and I can def do these things!! 🙂
Sabrina | Gypsy Tan
It’s a great list for every woman for sure. xo ~ Megan
Love these ideas! As mom sometimes we get so caught up in the go, go, go of everyday life we forget to set aside time for ourselves. A facial is going to the top of my list!
-Annie
http://www.discoveringyourhappy.com
Exactly Annie! We do forget. Thanks for stopping by. xo ~ Megan
I try to do all of these as often as possible – replace the race with a long walk on the beach at sunset… wink, wink!
Chelsea || http://www.binkiesandbaubles.com
The perfect exchange. I just love the competition and think its good to have healthy competition every once in awhile. xo ~ Megan
Yes, yes, yes to all of these! I’m saving this list!
Thanks Aly! I hope it really helps some mommas find time for them!! xo ~ Megan
I’m not a mama, but a lot of these are on my list!
I really should have called it 12 things every woman should do this year. 🙂 xo ~ Megan
Shopping alone would be like a vacation for me!! I don’t get to do it often enough!
By Lauren M
LOL yes sometimes I like going to Target and just wandering aimilessly. xo ~ Megan
Yes, yes yes! I 100% agree! Making time for yourself is so important!
It really is. It’s the only way to be able to give the best of you to your family. xo ~ Megan
Just a dog mama, but I’m still going to do some of these! Lol
LOL Totally something all women should do. 🙂 xo ~ Megan
Such a great list, I’m totally overdo for a massage!
xx Mollie
It’s time to schedule then for sure. xo ~ Megan
This list is awesome and I agree! Moms work so hard!
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Thank you Amy. It’s definitely a hard job. xo ~ Megan
totally sharing this with my new mama sister (& indulging in a few of these activities with her)! thanks for sharing!
xo Emily
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Thanks Emily. Congrats to your sister. These are great things to do together. xo ~ Megan
Sounds like a really great list!! You gotta take care of yourself!
xo Lacey
So true Lacey. We all need to take care of ourselves. xo ~ Megan
I really need to take your advice on these my friend… pedis are about the only thing I do regularly, but not enough!
Yes lady you totally do. They will change your life. Maybe the girls trip this year should totally be the two of us! 😉 Megan
Even though I’m not a mom yet, can I still go ahead and do all of these too?? 🙂 Because I love this list!
xo, Sara
LOL Sara. Absolutely. They are more like things every woman should do. 🙂 xo ~ Megan
These are the best suggestions! I just had my baby boy last week and I will have to keep these in mind!
Maggie
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Thank you so much Maggie! Congratulations, littles are so much fun. xo ~ Megan
Such a good list and definitely something women shouldn’t forget once they become moms!
Yes totally Emily. Thanks for stopping by. xo ~ Megan
It’s SO hard to remember to put ourselves first now and then! I really like the one-a-month idea!
Thanks Lexi. I think it’s something that’s achievable. xo~ Megan
I wish I could do some of these things! hahaha
Even if you do mani’s and pedi’s at home and facials, everyone needs to pamper themselves every now and then. xo ~ Megan
I love this list!!! I am over due a massage!!!
Yes Ruthie! You have to get in to get a massage. We all need a little R&R. xo ~ Megan
I’m pregnant and could use some of the things on your list already! Hahaha these are all great ideas and I believe in me time and panpering to feel great–thanks for sharing!
loved this post
Thank you Maria! xo ~ Megan
This is such a fun list of things to do!
Thank you Rachel! xo ~ Megan
Love this list! Great ideas!
xo, Steph
http://www.urbanblonde.com
Thank you so much Stephanie. xo ~ Megan